The researchers had pairs of friends come in so they could be sure that each I need new friends male and female of the pair agreed that they were in a friendship, preventing one-sided relationships from muddying the waters. The participants separately answered questions about their friendship, including their levels of attraction to one another. To discourage pressure to share the answers later, the researchers instructed the friends to keep their answers confidential, even nede the study.
The results revealed that men are more attracted to their female friends than their female friends are to them.
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Such overestimating of women's interest is not unusual for men, Bleske-Rechek said. Men who were romantically involved were no less likely than single guys to say they found their female friend attractive or to say they'd like to go neew a date with her.
Tom, 27, first noticed that his friendships were skewing womanward in college. Since then, he's found it even more difficult to make male friends. As more and more women entered the once predominately male have documented that men and women can indeed just be friends and that. Because I have no interest in hearing them speak about their crushes/boyfriends/ kids and so Are women better at making friends than men?.
Women who were romantically involved were also equally as likely as single gals to be attracted to their male friends, but they drew the line at dating, with fewer women in relationships saying they'd date their guy friend. The researchers next wanted to expand their findings outside the college student realm, so they sent questionnaires young adults ages 18 to 23 and adults I need new friends male and female the ages of 27 and In these questionnaires, participants were asked about their cross-sex friendships and were given the opportunity to list their own reasons why those friendships were both beneficial and burdensome.
Although older adults reported fewer opposite-sex friends than the younger group did, everyone was very positive about these friendships, ranking them as overwhelmingly beneficial.
But when people listed attraction on the "costs and benefits" list, it almost always fell under a "cost.
There was a slight sex difference to this finding, such that men were less likely to call sexual attraction to a friend a cost than women were, although they were still unlikely to see it as a positive. The finding shouldn't be interpreted to mean that men and femake can't be friends, Bleske-Rechek said, just that we may have to overcome our evolutionary history to do so.
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